R50p1) Ten Signs of a Male Narcissist.

 Ten Signs of a Male Narcissist.

Toxic Ties has uncovered the truth about male narcissists, and it's not pretty. They are masters of manipulation, making you feel like the center of their universe during the idealize phase. You'll feel like the most special person in the world to them, but it's all a facade.

The reality is that narcissists use people to boost their own egos, and they'll use you until they find someone else who they deem more valuable. Once that happens, they'll devalue and discard you without a second thought.

Don't be fooled by their charm and compliments. If you suspect that you're dealing with a male narcissist, pay attention to the warning signs. Does he only seem interested in you when he needs something? 

Does he constantly talk about himself and his accomplishments? 

Is he quick to anger and belittle you when you don't meet his expectations?

These are just a few of the signs to look out for. Remember, a relationship with a male narcissist is not a game you want to play. Protect yourself by learning the signs and walking away before it's too late.

Let's begin exploring the 10 signs that someone may struggle in this department.

First sign

Picture this: you meet a guy who seems to be in need of a little saving. He shares his stories of hardship and struggles, tugging at your heartstrings and making you feel like he needs you and only you. You begin to see him as a project, a person you can help and fix.

But beware, because this guy might just be a male narcissist in disguise. He's playing on your empathy, making you feel a sense of purpose and mission, all while using your kindness and generosity to feed his ego.

Even if he's not directly sharing his sob stories, you might sense an undercurrent of "poor me" in everything he says. This is how the well-seen narcissist operates. He makes himself your project, convincing you that you need to devote your time and energy to him.

On the other hand, the grandiose narcissist is more likely to make you their project. They'll play up their own accomplishments and importance, making you feel like you need to work to keep up with them.

No matter what type of narcissist you're dealing with, it's important to recognize the signs and protect yourself. Don't let someone else's issues become your burden. Focus on your own well-being and walk away from anyone who makes you feel like you're not enough.

Second sign

Imagine meeting someone who seems to be everything you've ever wanted in a partner. They're attentive, kind, and shower you with affection and gifts. You're on cloud nine, feeling like you've finally found your soulmate.

But beware, because this person might just be a male covert narcissist, and they're love bombing you. This is a tactic that starts the moment they've identified you as a suitable candidate, or even a suitable host for their ego. They'll latch on quickly, consuming all of your time and energy, and making you feel like the center of their universe.

The grandiose narcissist might do this in an over-the-top, assertive way, but the male covert narcissist is more subtle. They'll still give you excessive attention, admiration, and gifts, but in a less dramatic manner. They'll idealize you, creating a fantasy version of you that doesn't actually exist, and make you feel like you owe them for their attention.

During the love bombing phase, they'll tell you everything you want to hear, promising you the world and making you feel like the answer to all their prayers. They might even disclose that they need a woman like you to help them achieve success.

But the reality is, this intense honeymoon phase is not sustainable. After a certain period of time, they'll cut you off without warning or explanation, leaving you feeling confused and hurt.

In a normal relationship, the honeymoon phase does eventually end, but you still feel important, respected, and loved. With love bombing, the intensity is so obsessive that it's unsustainable, and the crash after the boom is painful.

Be cautious when someone puts you on a pedestal and idealizes you. Remember, a healthy relationship is built on mutual respect and admiration, not one-sided worship. Don't let yourself get swept away in the fantasy and risk being discarded when it's over.

Third Sign  

The male covert narcissist is a master at building trust and bonding with their victim in record time. They come across as super humble, kind, and trustworthy, almost like a dream come true. They ask deep and meaningful questions about your life, your family, your past relationships, and your trauma. They seem genuinely interested in your life story and appear deeply empathetic. It's all part of their plan to elicit information from you that they can later use to mess with your mind and emotions.

The covert narcissist is a wolf in sheep's clothing. They are experts at appearing harmless and often act inferior to you, all in the name of winning your trust. They use the information they've gathered to drive you further and further over the edge of insanity. They'll make you feel like you can trust them with your deepest secrets and fears, and then they'll use that information against you.

The worst part is, you won't see it coming. The ultra-fast trust building and bonding seem so real and genuine. But it's all a part of their sick game. Once they've gained your trust and have all the information they need, they'll start to show their true colors, and that's when the real nightmare begins. So beware of the male covert narcissist, and don't fall for their charming façade.

Fourth Sign 

It's a confusing stage when you're involved with a male narcissist. At first, they were showering you with attention and making you feel like you're the only one in the world. But then, something shifts. It's like a switch went off in their mind, and they start to knock you off that pedestal they built for you.

Suddenly, you're no longer as shiny and new as you used to be. They start to lose interest in you and move their entire attention away from you. They begin to devalue you and compare you to other, "better" people, making sure you know that you're a disappointment to them. They might tell you that you're hurting them or that you're not who they thought you were. They start to behave in dismissive and condescending ways, leaving things around that they know will hurt you or bring up jealousies and insecurities.

In this stage, their words no longer match their body language. They might tell you that they love you while their whole body is screaming "I hate you." It's incredibly confusing and causes cognitive dissonance because the person in front of you no longer fits with the person you thought you knew. More and more, they behave in these contradictory ways, complimenting and insulting you in the same sentence or acting empathetic while using sensitive information you shared with them against you.

The contempt and criticism really start to intensify here, and it's hard to keep up with the head games and psychological tricks. You're left feeling confused, hurt, and wondering what happened to the person who used to adore you.

number five 

Gaslighting is a tactic that the male covert narcissist uses to make you doubt your reality. They begin by accusing you of flirting, cheating, and lying, and twisting the things you say to make you doubt yourself. They deny things they've said and make you feel like you are the one victimizing them. As time goes on, you find yourself apologizing for things you didn't do, second-guessing yourself, and defending against unfounded accusations. You try to prove your loyalty and trustworthiness, while they are likely lying and cheating to find new supply to feed their needs.

Gaslighting with the covert narcissist is much more subtle. They may act like they are trying to be helpful by recommending therapy to you, reminding you of how messed up your childhood was or your lost relationship was. They may even use things you confided in them as evidence that you are inherently defective. They flip the narrative in sneaky ways, making you think you're crazy. When you see that smug smirk on their face, you know they got what they wanted. They know they succeeded in making you feel just a little crazier.